Leadership

What makes a good leader?

Experience shapes who I am today

My Leadership Journey

Why choose to be a leader? To bring a positive impact to the world, I believe many things need to change. Nevertheless, several steps should be taken to achieve a goal. I would like to share some perspectives on the journey of being a good leader.

Keys to a Successful Leader

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Communication

Effective communication and managing emails play an important role in leadership.

02

Mentorship

Passing down knowledge to future generations makes a huge impact on one’s career or personal goals.

03

Inclusive

Being aware of people from diverse backgrounds makes a better inclusive environment.

Everyone is on the same page

Communication

Organization

Email

Effective communication via email is important to build up leadership skills. 

Organize your inbox

You may get hundreds of emails every day. Which emails should you spend time reading, and which are not that you should set aside? One big thing here is to create folders.

Step 1: Prioritize those emails that need your attention and require your action. You can classify those need your attention emails into an “attention” folder.

Step 2: If you are in the middle of waiting for others to respond, I recommend you place those emails into an “await” folder. Although this await folder does not need your action, you should be able to see what emails are still in your working pipeline.

Step 3: Finished a task? Great work! For future records, you can place those emails into a “reference” folder. Just in case you need to dig out those emails in the future.

Done classifying your inbox? Setting up an auto-cleaning system will reduce your time to open and delete those emails that don’t need your attention (e.g., subscription emails). An auto-cleaning system helps you to set up a time to automatically delete emails. This way, you don’t need to delete each email one at a time. When those emails approach due time, they will be deleted.

Learn how to set up an auto-cleaning system in Outlook. Read Amy’s blog.


The relationships

Mentorship

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by whatever we give.” – Winston Churchill

There are three components to mentorships

The Mentor

The Mentee

The Relationship

The Mentor

A good mentor should have a few characteristics that help a mentee grow.

Willingness to help

A good mentor will show genuine help and be eager to help without gaining official credit. This is important because we seek someone who truly wants to help instead of exchanging benefits for something else.

Willingness to share

While it is easy to share the story behind success, however, the most challenging thing for people is to share their failures. Sharing stories about failures can show that the mentor sincerely hopes you can avoid the same pitfall and make your journey smooth when you plan to achieve a goal.

Willingness to grow

Remaining a growth mindset is important. A good mentor will know how they can improve themselves in many ways. When a mentor is moving forward, they may get inspired by something and share those stories with you that can help you grow.

The Mentee

A good mentee also needs to have a few characteristics to make the best of their learning experience.

01

Having a clear goal

Setting a clear goal will help your mentor to identify places that they can help with. Also, it is beneficial to set up milestones when you have set up a goal. Without having a goal, your mentor may not know how exactly they can help.

02

Willingness to accept feedback

As a mentee, you should be prepared to receive feedback and make changes. In some circumstances, you may or may not agree with all feedback from your mentor. But keeping your mind open can help you get closer to the goal and also show your willingness to grow as a learner.

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Willingness to meet regularly

Meeting your mentor regularly can help you keep track of your progress toward the goal you set up. Setting up regular meetings will help your mentor give helpful suggestions without losing track of your current progress.


The Relationship

Besides mentors and mentees, the relationship between them plays a critical role. Maintaining the best mentoring relationship will help both mentors and mentees grow.

Goal Alignment

Double-checking whether both mentors and mentees are on the same page can have both sides see the goal clearly. Mentors will be able to spot any place that can help more mentees. Similarly, mentees can then expect what is the next step to move forward. It would be helpful to set up an agenda to help mentees see where their goals are.

Meetings

Setting up meetings can help mentees know where they are now. Moreover, mentees and mentors will need to decide few components of meetings – how often? where? duration of the meeting?

Know each other

Each person has a different personality. Spending time together can help each side understand more about their mentees and mentors as people. Building strong connections will help create a more comfortable and happier collaboration atmosphere.


A photo taken in Burano, Venice.

People come from different backgrounds that shape their unique personalities and identity. Accommodating differences among people has become more important than ever.

Ways to be more inclusive

Establishing an inclusive environment is never easy. But as we try hard to support the needs of different groups of people, we can then help them build up a more friendly environment for them to shine. There are a few steps to help you build a more inclusive environment that benefits more individuals.

01

Aware

Others perspectives

Pay attention and listen to what other people are saying. They may imply they are facing certain difficulties. Give support if possible

02

open

Open-minded

Listen to the voices of people from different communities and understand their situation. Oftentimes, you will notice different groups of people need something different (gaps).

03

difference

Accommodate the gaps

Identify gaps that need to be filled by pulling in more inclusive actions. Establish more inclusive actions that meet the needs of various communities

04

Change

Challenge people or systems effectively by sharing your story

Sharing successful stories behind helping more people make others understand why you want to change the current systems